When I landed in Melbourne seven months ago, I met one of my friend with whom I wasn’t in touch for last 8 years. We went to same college, we started our career in the same company and we stayed in a same home then. For some reasons we lost contact and we met again last September. I was staying in his home for about two months when I landed in Melbourne.
I learnt and still learning many things from him. The most important of all is how to remain positive and openness to accept things and change them the way we wanted it to be. He helped me to look into the aspects of life which I have never looked at, the aspects of work and the aspect of many a things. Being with him, I feel more energetic, more enthusiastic and much more.
It is important you should have friends whom you can wake up at middle of night to talk nonsense. Surrounding yourself with positive and good friends is very important for your health, life and work. This is not a long kept secret, but a simple thing that takes you miles.
This post is to express my thanks and gratitude.
Opportunity Cost , the real cost of lost time, lost credibility, lost career, lost love, lost life which are brought into one’s life by our seeming friends – Laziness and procrastination are very high. In long run, these seeming friends bring more pain to life than pleasure.
More than any other losses, these seeming friends brought pessimism into me; against which I am fought every day. There are many theories out there about pessimism – it feels good to read about it, but it is very hard to spend a few months / years with it. I have been there, felt that and know what it means. Pessimism : I call it a strange disease; puts a filter on to your vision and the result, you see negativity in all sorts of life. The more pain of this strange disease is- you don’t know you have it. I thought I was more optimistic and realistic, but the reality is I had that filter on my vision without me knowing about it.
I tried many things to get out of it – To Do lists, Not To do lists, doing three important things a day and so many other suggestions out there on web. Nothing worked. Thank God : I read this post of Reg Braithwaite . The techniques in the book – Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life has helped me a lot in taking my pessimism out. It took a lot of time and pain for me to come out of it, I am now out of it. I have re-read the book many many times. A Great book.
Yesterday, when I logged into my blog to make my first blog of the year, my heart felt bad to learn that the last post I made was in April last year. So many opportunities lost in last one year , but it is OK. As the saying goes ” Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending”
As with regards to my career, I have two certification goals for this year. One is planned by end of July and the other by end of Oct-2010. I now feel very optimistic that the opportunity cost of my decision, the choices I make now will make me better in times to come.
I know there are few followers for my blog, but still it is my responsibility to keep it updated for very basic reason that I started it, and I dont want “it” to die with yet another blog on internet. Oh yes, I hear your voice ” Hey idiot (Azagu).. What on earth makes you believe that your blog is still alive?”. My answer though it sounds stupid is ” Gentleman.. I am still alive and I will not let my blog die in front of my eyes.. I will certaninly give it a new life”.
It is a shame to tell laziness, procrastination, not knowing what I want / where I want to go and many other absurd reasons and silly things that has kept me away from writing blogs. Yes, it is bull**** to say so. I am currenlty in Melbourne, Australia for past 7 months and will be back in India in next couple of months. A lot has happened to my life and many of them – not the way I wanted it to be. I have been toying around with many ideas, but I feel the time is not ripe to make a decision; in otherwords, as the wise say, this guy is not ready to take risks. One thing for sure, I have to move out of so called self proclaimed IT services companies operating out of India and become an indepedant IT consultant / entrepreneur like …. (itentionally left blank).
I have so many things on my head, I have to do a lot of things and it is still a shame for me to tell that laziness and procastination has kept me away. But I have to start somewhere and this is a new start for a new ending which I wanted. For those of my friends out there, I wish to tell with confidence ” I am back….. and I will come out of my laziness – comfort zone and stretch my muscles to see the new horizon. I am going to use this blog as revival tool – a medium to express myself. “